Thursday, April 11, 2013

A Homecoming

HE'S BACK IN THE USA!!!!!
Barry and I have known for about 6 weeks the troop movement timeline but could only share those dates in a very general way.

For the past several weeks I have been on pins and needles....counting the days until Keefe comes home.  On Sunday he completed the first leg of his journey.  The company landed in Kyrgyzstan where I'm sure one of the first things they all did was raise a glass of brew.  Seven months is a long time for a Marine to go without a beer or cocktail. ;)

Keefe arrived back in the USA TODAY!!!.  He will be home on leave from April 20 - May 5.  Unfortunately, I will not be home when he arrives on April 20. ;( Bummer!!!   However I will get to hug and kiss his sweet face on April 21 when I return from a trip planned way before we knew the return dates.    It is deary outside today but as you can imagine my heart is filled with sunshine and joy. :) Thanks to all of you for your prayers and support these past months.  SEMPER FI!!!

 











A Homecoming Celebration is planned for Saturday, April 27 at the Murtaugh Chateau.  Time 4 - 8 pm. If you are in the area please join us.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Sacrifice, Service, Commitment




It's been a rough month for the USMC and Naval Academy Alumni.   On March 11, 2013, a Navy Prowler went down off the Washington Coast near Whidbey Island.  The pilot was LtJG Valarie Cappelaere Delaney '09, (classmate of Keefe), LtJG William Brown McIlvaine '10, (fellow Glee Club member and friend) and Lt Commander Alan A. Patterson also a Naval Academy grad.
A few days later there was a tragic explosion at the Hawthorne Depot Training Center in Nevada killing 7 Marines. Then just a few days after the explosion, 3 Marines died in a tragic shooting on the USMC Base in Quantico, Va.

On Sunday the holiest week of the liturgical year began with the celebration of Palm Sunday.  The week leads into the great feast of the Triduum.  The Triduum begins with Holy Thursday, followed by Good Friday,  then Holy Saturday/Easter Vigil and ending with Easter Sunday.  It is my favorite time of year in the church's life. As a cantor I usually get assigned to minister to the Holy Thursday service.  It is a privilege and honor to be the leader of sung prayer  at Sunday worship but cantoring during the Triduum is a true high point for me.

The gospel verse for Holy Thursday  is sung over and over each year.  It has a very strong positive yet scary effect on me.  Especially when I think about the way I lead my life as a professed Christian.   "There is no greater love than to lay down your life for a friend".  It is challenging yet that is what Christ did for us.




Over 2000 years ago a man was killed for what he believed and preached. 

The Navy and Marine personnel that died this past month were also individuals who were committed to service and were willing to sacrifice their lives if needed.

In both of these situations all the individuals were  committed to the values they believed in and lived by. Each individual had a commitment to service and willing to sacrifice their own life in service to others.

In fact these two values  have helped me accept and support my son in his choice to serve in the military.  Commitment to service may sound pretty simple. On the other hand sacrifice is a scary proposition.  When I think about the commitment that Keefe has made I am in awe.

Now mind you I am not saying that war and fighting are ok.  Christ ask us to seek peace in the world not war.    A peace that can be achieved through loving our neighbor and enemies.  So let us go forward this week into Easter joy, reflecting upon our own personal commitment to our faith and how we live that faith in everyday life.  Do we truly love our neighbors as ourselves? Are we willing to lay down our life for a friend?

Have a blest and holy Triduum and Easter!!

I am happy to report that Keefe will be home soon very soon!! Keep those prayers coming for a safe journey.

Semper Fi!








Tuesday, February 26, 2013

A February Christmas Surprise and Life in a Strange Land



A week ago it was  15 degrees cold and I had to go downtown for a meeting.  I got on the train and after getting half way downtown got an email that the meeting was cancelled.  However the trip was not in vain as I had a small errand to take care of BUT it could have waited.   I did what I needed to do then headed back to the train station for the 1:30 pm train and I MISS IT!!!! ARRGH! So I waited for the 2:30 pm and arrive back in Barrington around 3:45 pm  and get home at 4 pm. 


When I arrived home there was a box on the front porch. 


One of those PRICELESS moments has taken place.  


A BOX FROM AFGHANISTAN...WOOHOO!!!!  

Now mind you I'm not sure this is a belated gift for us or a souvenir for Keefe Murtaugh.  None the less it brightened my day!  Thank you Lt. Murtaugh!!!!!  You are the best!!! Nothing like Christmas in February and the Lenten Season. I must have screwed up his liturgical sensibilities. ;) BUT WE HAVE A POP UP USMC CHRISTMAS TREE! Oh yeah it has lights as well!! LOL!!!! 

Since the package arrived, I've chatted with Keefe very briefly on Facebook. It turns out this was his Christmas tree for the holidays.   Still does not take the shine away from my day last week. :)

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Today the Chicago area is expecting a winter mix of rain, ice and snow.  The forecast sounds familiar to my ears.  Oh yeah, last Tuesday 15 degrees, rain, ice and snow.  Well at least it will be in the 30's today.  

Although there is not  much sun today, my heart is shining brightly.  I am counting the days till Keefe and 2/7 are safely back in the USA.  It will be the longest 6-8 weeks of my life.  



On the other hand I am bothered by what is being left behind.  I have many, many  questions.  I realize there are no easy answers but I still have questions. Did over 10 years of war and occupation really help? Couldn't we have gotten Bin Laden without sacrificing over a 1,000 of the young men and women who served in the multinational forces?  Have we in Western Society not learned the lesson that you can't impose your culture and way of life on people?   Why can't we accept that people live differently and that's not all bad?  It's what makes this world such a wonderful creation. Questions! Questions! ????????

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After reading articles like the one below about life in Helmand Province, I begin to understand my son's frustration and shake my head even more at the time and effort that has been spent in Afghanistan. 


Afghan police accused of corruption and child abuse
Ben AndersonBen Anderson witnessed corruption and criminality among the Afghan police. BBC Panorama reporter Ben Anderson spent five weeks with US Marines working to advise Afghan security forces in Helmand province. While he was there, he witnessed corruption and criminality among the Afghan police force.

Most police forces investigate crimes like corruption, kidnapping, drug use, murder and child abuse. But in Sangin - the most violent district in Afghanistan - these are crimes that some of the police commit.

Politicians insist the handover to the Afghan security forces is going smoothly and that they will be able to maintain security as the allied forces withdraw.

On a recent visit to Helmand, UK Defence Secretary Philip Hammond said the "transition is proceeding very well - it is on track. "The Afghans are developing capabilities faster than we expected and we have every reason to believe that they will be able to maintain security as the Isaf forces draw down," he added.

The outgoing commander of Nato forces, Gen John Allen, is even more ebullient: "Afghan forces are defending Afghan people and enabling the government of this country to serve its citizens. This is victory. This is what winning looks like, and we should not shrink from using these words."

The reality in Sangin is very different.

I spent five weeks embedded with US Marines, who took over the region from British troops in 2010. I hoped to gain a true sense of what progress has been made in readying the Afghan forces to secure the area. During my time in Sangin, just two teams of 18 US Marines went out every few days to advise the Afghan army and police across the district. The remaining American forces have withdrawn to the main forward operating base, which they rarely leave. Because of the growing risk of deadly insider - or "green on blue" - attacks, the Americans live completely apart from their Afghan counterparts. Whenever the Americans enter the Afghan side of the base, they have their weapons cocked, ready to fire. When they did go out, what the marines saw was far from encouraging. At one checkpoint, the Afghan police were openly smoking marijuana. Two other police officers, assigned to fill sandbags to fortify a watchtower, were high on something stronger - probably opium or heroin. When one of the police commanders was shot, three weeks after I left, the American medics who saved him found a bag of heroin in his pocket.

USMC Major Bill Steuber is leading the police advisory team, and spends much of his time at headquarters with the police leadership. He said corruption is rampant, and even compared it to the American television show The Sopranos.
"It's vast," he said, "everything from skimming ammunition off their supplies to skimming fuel off their shipments. "There's false imprisonment - they'll take people during an engagement, and they'll just wrap everyone up, then they'll wait for the families to come in and pay them money to be able to release them." He said the police sometimes sell ammunition and weapons in the local bazaar, including rocket-propelled grenades. So weapons paid for by the allied forces could well be ending up in the hands of the Taliban. In one instance, a patrol base was deemed unsafe to stay in because the Afghan police were selling off the security walls as scrap metal. Major Steuber said the foreign military working here have to accept the limitations on what they can hope to achieve. He said that because the Afghan police were unable to sustain themselves, sometimes corruption was the only way they could function. "If we were to go in and shut down all of their schemes, all of their corruption schemes, you would render them completely ineffective," he said.

But there are issues Major Steuber said need to be tackled head-on - including the sexual abuse of young boys by local police commanders. On every police base I visited in Sangin, there were young boys: some were armed, and some looked like servants. They are known as "chai boys". Major Steuber says they are often sexually abused. The problem is widespread. While I was in Sangin, four boys were shot while trying to escape police commanders, three of them fatally. None of the commanders responsible were arrested. Sangin Deputy Police Chief Qhattab Khan admitted this abuse is taking place, and promised to take action. He told Major Steuber: "The kids themselves want to stay at the patrol bases and give their bodies at night… There is no humanity. There is no military command". Mr Khan retired before any action was taken to free the chai boys. To date they have not been released. "Try doing that day in, day out," said Major Steuber, "working with child molesters, working with people who are robbing people, murdering them. It wears on you after a while." The Afghan government says it is fighting corruption and that the police and armed forces are ready and willing to take full responsibility for the security of their country. Ministry of Interior Spokesman Sediq Sediqi, said the Afghan Government would investigate the claims of corruption and abuse, highlighted by Panorama. But from what I saw, corruption and criminality are widespread among the police in Sangin. This is exactly the kind of behaviour that led many Afghans to welcome the Taliban when they swept to power in 1996. Is this what all the fighting and bloodshed has been for?

Ben Anderson has traveled to Helmand province many times since 2007. He has written a book about his experiences there - No Worse Enemy.

Panorama: Mission Accomplished? Secrets of Helmand, BBC One, Monday, 25 February at 20:30 GMT

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Rambling Thoughts about a Homecoming

Today is February 5.  It's my brother, Tommy's 51st Birthday.  Happy Birthday Little Brother!


Saturday evening Barry and I chatted with Keefe via Skype.  He is looking a little sunburned from the high altitude and continues to complain of boredom.  However Mom likes bored. :).

This past week we received an update from Lt. Colonel Tomich about the preparations for returning home.  I've included a portion of the newsletter below.




From Lt. Col. Don Tomich, the commanding officer of 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines.
 

Dear Families and Friends of 2/7,

Our Marines and sailors have done a phenomenal job operating in this challenging and constantly changing environment. It is humbling to see how they face each day with equal determination to accomplish the mission and equally determined to take care of each other. It has been 4 months and we have seen much progress in our area of operations. Significant pressure has been relieved on our Afghan partners who make new gains every day.


We have been visited by the Helmand Provincial Governor and others including General Amos (Commandant of the Marine Corps), Lieutenant General Tyron (Deputy Commandant for Plans, Policies, and Operations), Lieutenant General Faulkner (Deputy Commandant Installations and Logistics), Major General Gurganus (Commanding General, Regional Command-Southwest), and Major General Berger (Commanding General, Task Force Leatherneck) and all had high praise for your Marines’ and sailors tenacity and professionalism in this very important mission.
 

This is an exciting time as we start to think of and make plans for the impending homecoming. Your Marines and sailors have been extremely professional and proficient and have accomplished so much since our September departure. There is still much to be accomplished before our return in just a couple of short months. I am proud to serve with each and every one of them.
Semper Fidelis!
Don Tomich
Lieutenant Colonel



Sometime in April Keefe will be home in Barrington.  It will be good to spend time with him after such a long separation. YEAH!!!


Semper Fi!

Monday, January 28, 2013

Zero Dark Thirty and Post 9/11 thoughts

Last night Barry and I went to see "Zero Dark Thirty". Wow! If you haven't seen it I highly recommend the movie. Girls' Rule. Go see the movie and you'll get why I say that.

May 1, 2011 is the day OBL was killed.   It also happens to  be Keefe's birthday.   Keefe was home on leave May 1, 2011.  While we were preparing a celebration dinner, before he went out with his friend, a breaking news announcement came across the screen that the President would be speaking within the hour.   All three of us knew instinctively that it must be something of grave importance.   I think all three of us were stunned as the President announced that OBL had been killed.  

That evening brought back a flood of memories. My memory of 9/11: 

1) Working with a group of Franciscan's holding retreat at Loyola University, who's brother Fr. Michael Judge died in the World Trade Center trying to rescue folks.
2) Helping guest at the retreat house make arrangements for a longer than expected stay due to grounded flights and no rental cars available.
3) Frantically trying to reach a nephew and his wife, praying that they were not traveling that day.
4) Touching base with my children and husband to discuss our game plan for the day.
5) Fearful of the unknown over the course of the next few days.
6) Reflecting on the uncertainty of life.

But with all of this__ the memory that is the most vivid in my mind came at the end of the day.   Liam was attending Loyola University and living on campus. His roommate's Dad worked at the Pentagon and he had finally received word that Dad was ok.  Keefe and Rory were students in their Freshman and Junior year at Loyola Academy.  Keefe had already become very serious about attending the Naval Academy and becoming a Marine Officer.    

As we gathered to eat our evening meal together, we prayed for the victims, the perpetrators, all the families affected by the day  and the nation.  Of course the conversation at the table was all about the day's events.  I remember turning to Keefe with the following question. "What are you thinking about military service after today?" I expected the answer to be not sure it's what I want to do now.  Instead I got a square look in the eye with the answer "Mom, I want to be a part of the military now more than ever".  

Not what I wanted to hear!

Jumping forward 11 years to 2012 I must say while I still don't like the fact that he has chosen to be in the military, I must say I am very proud of him! 

He has chosen a path few do: 
1) to protect and preserve something that each of us takes for granted most days.
2)  to follow his convictions with purpose and courage.  
3) to be of service to humanity.
4) to love others above himself.


 I am grateful that God chose me to be his mother!

Semper Fi!

 




Sunday, January 13, 2013

Post Christmas Travels and Tales

Currently,  I am sitting in Keefe's home in Twentynine Palms, CA where I woke up to 19F this morning.  So much for a break from the Chicago winter. ;)   


It has been a long journey to get here.  Barry, Rory and I left Barrington the 18th of December to spend Christmas in London with Liam.   We spoke with Keefe on Christmas Day.  He informed us that the deployment was more than half over.   YEAH!!!! 

Many friends and family sent him packages for the holidays and much of it was shared with his men.  Nancy's famous bump cake, cookies, fudge, beef jerky, board games, cards, DVD's, and cigars were among the treasures.  Their Christmas dinner was steak and potatoes. 


While we missed spending Christmas with Keefe, it was great Skyping with him on the 25th.  He looks good and routinely mentions that he is bored.  Mom likes bored.  Keefe not so much.  




I spoke with Keefe again this past week.  He is marking time till he returns home.  In a little over 10 weeks he will be back in the USA!!!! Double YEAH!!!!

While in London, we had a family dining out at Hawksmoor which included a toast to Keefe with a drink called Concealed Weapon and a Macallan 16.



In addition to some sightseeing, Rory aka Kory Quinn, booked 
a few London Shows. This bill was posted in the Ladies Bathroom.   
You know your kid has made it when this happens! ;)

Barry and I returned from London on December 26, while Rory stayed in London then traveled to Ireland where he went on a musical working tour of Dublin, Wicklow and Cork. Big Brother Liam joined him for part of the tour. I think this was a musical tour but maybe it was a Guinness and Jameson Tour. ;)








Barry and I washed clothes and re-packed for our journey to the Southwest.   With our dogs in tow, we headed to Fort Worth to spend New Year's Eve with Barry's mom, then off to Albuquerque for a week where I managed the 2013 NAAL Annual Meeting.  After the meeting we headed to Taos for a couple days to visit some friends who lived in Barrington about 25 years ago.  While in Taos we toured the Taos Pueblo, which is over 1,000 years old.  


Then off to Phoenix we went to visit with Barry's oldest Sean, his wife Cathy and the grandson, Eamon.
Barry and I enjoyed our short time with them.  He especially enjoyed hanging out with his 8 year old grandson, Eamon.   







We are now in Twentynine Palms, CA where it has been unusually cold for this time of the year.  Yesterday Barry and I spent the afternoon in the Colorado Desert in the southern part of Joshua Tree National Park.  This past June we spent time in the Mohave Desert section of the park.  When driving through this amazing area you are reminded of the many forces of nature and its impact on the surrounding area.   



Tomorrow we head to the Grand Canyon then on to Gunnison, CO to visit with Bob and Mary Jo Schauer.  We'll head on back to Chitown and be home soon.   

Happy New Year to one and all!!!

Semper Fi!


Sunday, December 16, 2012

Gaudete Sunday

  Today is Gaudete Sunday in the Church's Liturgical Calendar. It's the day we rejoice and light the rose colored candle in the Advent Wreath. Since Friday morning, when 27 lives were lost with 20 of them children, I think most of us have not been very joyful.  In fact we have been in mourning as well as grateful for our families.  Today, let us pray that violence will end. That peace and justice will reign.


I have been away from the blog for several weeks.  I've been extremely busy with work and the addition of a new client.

Keefe and I chatted yesterday on Facebook. His Christmas packages have started to arrive.  He's received one of three from Mom, one from my sister, and one from Gerry and Liz Rodosky.   I told him that several more are on the way.   As I was packing his Christmas boxes, I was reminded of a simpler time of gift giving.  I was not packing electronics, fancy clothes, or other expensive items.  The gifts were things to bring a little home to the front.  Gifts like cookies, candy, traditional food items for the season, an old Christmas stocking stuffed with goodies, a few DVD's, cards, and a chess set.   Things that would hopefully make being away from family for the holidays a little brighter.  The troops will be celebrating Christmas with the usual holiday meal as well as participate in a decoration contest, an appearance by Santa, and the traditional caroling. We scheduled a time to talk on Christmas Day, then said Merry Christmas to each other which ended our conversation.   I will admit tears came to my eyes as the full force of Keefe not being home for the holidays finally hit me!!


Although I've been really busy with work, I have been collecting pictures and articles to post.   Last weekend when the Patriots and the Texans squared off, a few of the guys took a picture to post on Facebook.  Lt. Murtaugh is the one in the hat by the REALLY BIG gun!  I've also included 2 articles about the mission that is being carried out in Helmand Province, where he is located.


Barry, Rory and I are headed to London to spend Christmas with Liam. I will try to post pictures of our time together as well as articles and pictures I've been collecting about Keefe and the troops.


The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light! Wishing each of you and your families a Blest and Holy Christmas!

Semper Fi!

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Building on past traditions, legacy: Fox Company pushes
forward in Afghanistan


MUSA QAL’ AH DISTRICT CENTER, Afghanistan – The phrase "The
Few, The Proud" has been associated with Marines for years, but for one
infantry company the words have a deeper meaning. Marines with Fox Company, 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines, Regimental Combat Team 7, are currently deployed to Afghanistan in support of
Operation Enduring Freedom. For them, it is an opportunity to build upon and continue the illustrious past and traditions associated with their company. “There’s been a lot of Marines throughout history, but there’s only been a select few who have had the opportunity to say they were a part of Fox
Company, 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines,” said 1st Sgt. Christopher Griffith, the company first sergeant and Parkersburg, W.Va., native. “To me, that’s why it’s so important for the men in this company to have such a fond respect for those who came before us.” For Capt. Thomas Harris, the company commander, the feeling of being a part of Fox is humbling. “The battalion, as well as the company, has a pretty impressive battle history,” said Harris, from Fort Madison, Iowa. “They’ve always done great things in hard places. So it’s eye-opening to have to be responsible for not only the Marines and sailors of the current Fox Company, but also the heritage and legacy of past Fox Company Marines.” In the Korean War, Fox Co. would cement its legacy in the history books with one battle in particular, The Battle of Fox Hill. The intense fight lasted from Nov. 28 through Dec. 2, 1950. Because of the cold and frigid temperatures, Marines’ weapons would malfunction and grenades would freeze, so the Marines had to rely on hand to hand combat. During the battle, 250 men with Fox Co. endured -30 degrees Fahrenheit temperatures, held their position against an entire regiment of enemy forces and eventually pushed them back. When the final shots of the battle were fired, only 85 men in the company were able to walk off the battlefield on their feet, the rest were wounded, captured or killed in action. During The Battle of Fox Hill, two men would be awarded the Medal of Honor.  Sacrifices would also be recognized in the book “The Last Stand of Fox Company,” a book that Griffith refers to as his bible. The Marines of Fox Co. would again add to their legacy during the Korean War with three more Marines receiving the Medal of Honor. To pay tribute to the Marines who have come before them, Griffith keeps a company guidon created by a former Fox Co. Marine and Korean War veteran in his office. Displayed on the guidon are six informative plates honoring former Fox Co. Marines. Five plates are for Marines who went above and beyond the call of duty and received the Medal of Honor during the Korean War from 1950 to 1953, and one for the creator of the guidon. For the past two years, the guidon has gone with the company wherever they have gone. From California, Okinawa, Australia, the Philippines and Afghanistan, the guidon has been with them the entire way.
“The guidon is more than a piece of material, it’s a symbol. It’s a symbol of unit pride,” Griffith said.
“It’s the pinnacle of my career to be able to be the first sergeant for Fox Company 2/7.”
Harris reinforced what Griffith said and noted the sacrifice made by the Marines whose names are
displayed on the guidon. “The guidon adds even more to the weight of the responsibility of this company,” Harris said. “It’s a solemn reminder for all of us of the good deeds done by good Marines.” For junior Marines in Fox Co., the feeling of pride and honor is mutual.
“It’s an honor to be a part of Fox Company honestly,” said Lance Cpl. Miguel Davila, machine gunner with the company. “The history and traditions go back pretty far, and then to also be a part of 1st Marine Division and what they’ve done throughout history is pretty cool. I get pride out of being part of Fox 2/7.” On their current deployment, the company has taken a step back and allowed the Afghan National Security Forces operating in the area the chance to reclaim their country’s security. It is a mission that will only help solidify the company’s legacy. “We have a unique mission,” Harris said. “It’s absolutely different than the mission that battalions have faced in previous engagements throughout history. This will still add to our legacy. We still have the opportunity to go forward and execute the mission that was asked of us by the nation.” While deployed, Fox Co. will continue to maintain security and allow the ANSF to operate independently ensuring they receive any assistance that might be required.

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District officials, PRT members discuss improvements in Musa
Qal'ah


MUSA QAL’AH DISTRICT CENTER, Afghanistan –
Members of the Helmand Provincial Reconstruction Team
met with local Government of the Islamic Republic of
Afghanistan officials and local village elders in an effort to
assess governance, security and stability in Musa Qal’ah, Afghanistan, Nov. 29.
During recent years, Musa Qal’ah has undergone drastic changes in an effort to better the lives of the Afghan people living here. The meeting was designed to continue the improvements in the area and to help build upon them as coalition forces withdraw and authority and responsibilities shift to the Afghans.

“Our mission is to facilitate transition to the Afghan government, and it’s important in our role to
support them, to see how they’re doing, and where we might be able to help provide advice to the
Afghan government on how to better deliver services to the people,” said Matt Duncan, a political
officer with the Helmand PRT, and Rochester, N.Y., native. “Musa Qal’ah is light-years ahead of where it was two years ago, and that’s thanks to the work done by the Marines and the Afghan National Security Forces, as well as the Afghan government.” Staff Sgt. Ben Lund, civil affairs with Fox Company, 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines, Regimental Combat Team 7, noted the increased security presence in the area and how the ANSF continue to provide stability to the region.
“Securitywise, Musa Qal’ah has probably come twofold. Its security has progressed 100 percent,” said Lund, from Phoenix. “The (Afghan Uniform Police) and (Afghan National Army) operate by themselves with little to no assistance. There are fewer (improvised explosive devices), and the ANA and AUP are finding those IEDS and neutralizing them. They’ll call Marine Corps (explosive ordnance disposal) every once in a while if they need to get rid of something, but for the most part, they handle it on their own. They’re patrolling by themselves, they’re arresting people, and they had a huge drug bust just last week and processed everything and took it to Lashkar Gah by themselves.”
Because of the work done by Marines, ANSF, the PRT and local government officials, the future of
Musa Qal’ah looks promising. “We were able to talk about the thriving bazaar,” Duncan said. “There are 900 shops in it, and people District officials, PRT members discuss improvements in Musa ...
from all across northern Helmand come to it to buy goods. The economy in Musa Qal’ah is thriving at the moment. People can now move with relative freedom from the district to Lashkar Gah, the
provincial capital. They use the bazaar and the Taliban is gone from the district center.”
The meeting also marked another milestone by allowing village elders the opportunity to talk with
GIRoA officals. “The PRT came down to talk to the acting district governor because he is able to talk to the elders in Musa Qal’ah, and that’s who we spoke with today,” Lund said. “That’s the first time that (village elders) came and talked to GIRoA officials. We’re trying to get the elders to bring their face forward and support GIRoA. Once the village elders put some people in key positions, hopefully they can get additional money to the area and increase development, increase security and hopefully find an alternate crop to poppy.” Until coalition forces completely withdraw from Afghanistan, they will ensure development continues in areas such as Musa Qal’ah. “Musa Qal’ah, from where it was just a few years ago, is a good story,” Duncan said. “You used to not be able to walk out of the (forward operating base) without getting shot at, and nobody would be in the bazaar. The bazaar is thriving now, kids are going to school and a lot of progress has been made here.”

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Thanksgiving

Barry and I spent a quiet Thanksgiving by sharing a late lunch and an afternoon visit to the movies to see "Lincoln".  We ended the day at some friends for dessert, wine and a bonfire.   It was a beautiful and simple day, although we missed having at least one of the boys home.   Due to their schedules, we weren't able to chat until Friday.  I scheduled a group video call on Skype which was sort of successful.   There was a 10 second delay so holding a multiple person conversation was a challenge but worth the effort to have the entire bunch on the call.

Keefe had to patrol on Thanksgiving Day, but his troops managed to find a lone turkey in the desert which became their dinner.  I didn't ask for details. ;)


Liam prepared a simple dinner and shared it with a friend.   Rory spent Thanksgiving with his adopted family "The Haney's" who live in Idaho and Oregon.

I am full of gratitude for the technology that allowed us to connect with our adult sons who are scattered to the four winds.

Recently a Marine Blog published this article about 2/7 Marines, Golf Company.  The article describes what Golf Company has been up to in Afghanistan.   Golf Company Article Quoting Lt. Murtaugh


Wishing you and yours a wonderful holiday season.

Semper Fi!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Veteran's Day plus the 237th Marine Birthday

Tom Ballard, Army
Major Joseph (Joe) Murtaugh, USAF
Today is Veterans Day. It is an official United States holiday honoring armed service veterans.  There are quite a few veterans in both my family and Barry's family.  Both of our fathers served as well as many of our cousins.   Every branch of the service is represented: Navy, Marine, Army, and Air Force.  Thank you for your service!!!  As a military mom, I know the concern and the pride that your loved ones went through during your time of service.


Keefe receiving the oath of office from Lt. Col. Grady Dougless , USAF retired

I still remember the day in third grade that Keefe told us he wanted to be a Marine when he grew up.  In addition he wanted to go to the Naval Academy.  Barry and I said that was great but in our minds thought it was just a little boy's fantasy.  Hah! Were we surprised! I know that his grandfathers would be extremely proud of him today. 
Keefe and President Obama on Graduation Day

Lt. Keefe Murtaugh, USMC receiving his first salute from grade school friend, Chris Siedsma.

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Another Veteran to Honor:
Today on my Facebook page I received a message from a FB Friend and "W" Alum who mentioned that she was enjoying this blog.  She also sent me a link about her Dad's 1st cousin, who was a Mississippian, joined the Marine Corp, and ultimately became a 4 Star General as well as the Marine Commandant.  To read about General Louis Wilson, USMC click on the following link  "An Officer and A Gentleman"
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 Happy Birthday to the Marine Corp.

Since yesterday was the Marine's 237th Birthday,  it seemed fitting to post this article about Lance Corporal Tashi Dhondup serving with Keefe in Afghanistan. The article was posted on the eMarine website.

When an 8-year-old Tibetan boy fled his home country with his family for religious and cultural freedom, becoming a United States Marine was the last thing on his mind.

For Lance Cpl. Tashi Dhondup, a supply warehouseman with 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines, Regimental Combat Team 6, leaving his home of Lhasa, Tibet, and moving to northern India to practice his religion and learn about his culture was the first step on his journey of becoming a U.S. citizen.

“When I was 8, my family ran away from Tibet because there is no freedom of religion, no freedom to learn our own language,” Dhondup said. “We moved to India so we could study our own language and learn our culture.”

After going to a boarding school in India until the eighth grade and learning Hindi, one of the most commonly spoken Indian languages, he left for the states in search of more opportunities for his family.

“I was at school in India, and my mom told me we would have a better life in the United States,” Dhondup explained. “We moved to Jersey City, N.J., and after six months there, we moved to Connecticut. I’ve always wanted to serve in the military. I had a language teacher who taught me English. He had been in the Army but he told me to join the Marines because it was tougher and better.”

When Dhondup turned 18, he joined the Marine Corps protecting a country that was not yet his own.

“I applied to become an American citizen last March, and when I was in (Enhanced Mojave Viper) training before our deployment, my citizenship paperwork was approved,” Dhondup explained. “I took the oath for citizenship July 25, 2012, and it meant a lot to me. Because we ran from Tibet, if we had returned without citizenship, we would be put in prison. Now that I am an American, I can visit where I came from without fear, and I can return to my new home with no problems.”

Now as a citizen, when Dhondup returns home on leave, it is evident to his friends that his experiences in life and in the Marine Corps have given him an increased maturity level.

“I’m glad I’m an American now, but I do miss where I came from,” Dhondup said. “A lot of my friends complain about little things. Going home on leave and being in the uniform means more, and if they were to step in my shoes they wouldn’t have anything to complain about.”

Dhondup’s work ethic is also evident to his fellow Marines.

“He is the only supply warehouseman out here, and he was handpicked to deploy,” said Staff Sgt. Terrell Kelly, supply chief, 2nd Bn., 7th Marines, and a Detroit native. “He is one of the hardest working Marines we have in our shop. He will take an order and actually execute as if he were corporal or a sergeant. He became a Marine because he wanted to defend America, and to become a Marine and then to become a citizen is outstanding.”

Saturday, November 10, 2012

News from the Commanding Officer



From LtCol Don Tomich, the commanding officer of 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines.
Dated: 06 November 2012





Family and Friends of 2/7,
This a quick update from Afghanistan. The companies have settled into their respective districts in Northern Helmand. The Battalion and its advisor teams are working from Now Zad district in Northwest to Sangin district in the South. For those who have been here before it is a similar landscape with a totally new atmosphere. The Marines and sailors are working hand in hand with the Marine advisor teams to ensure that Afghan Security Forces are out and in the lead. This has proven successful as the battalion can see the successful results of their efforts every day. The Afghan forces continue to take the fight to the enemy and the Afghan government becomes more proactive in providing for the people. As a result of everyone's efforts the insurgents have become less effective in the districts and the local people are demanding more of the good security in areas where some didn't think it was possible in the past.

The Marine Corps Birthday is also here. We plan to observe the Birthday with our Marine and Navy Brothers while in country and celebrate with our family and friends with a dining out upon our return.
CBS news is back with the battalion. It appears that these recent segments may air on 60 minutes over the coming months. So stay tuned to the battalion eMarine pages for more updates.
Lastly, please keep the mail coming. The cards and packages are the highlight of everyone's day. Thanks for your continued support to 2nd Battalion, 7th Marines.

Happy 237th Birthday to the Marine Corp!!

Semper Fi!

Sunday, November 4, 2012

Love one another is not so simple!

Today is the first Sunday of November, last night we turned our clocks back, Tuesday we hold a presidential election, and today in church we focused on God's commandant to "love one another as I have loved you".

I have always been very fond of this scripture passage. It's such a simple phrase but very hard to live.  We let our political and religious views get in the way of this simple act of faith.

Although I know this is very idealist,  my hope for this world, time and place, would be to sit down at a round table, share a meal, and really listen to each other as we share our hopes, dreams and aspirations for humanity.  I believe then there would be no need for war, there would be no poverty, and all would live as Christ  ask.  It wouldn't matter if we were Christian, Jew, Muslim, Buddhist, Hindu, Morman or Atheist. Nor would our skin color, nationality, ethnicity, etc. matter at all.

This kind of love calls us to love unconditionally.  It is a love that ask us to love our enemies and our neighbor. To love as God loves us!!  It is a love of intimacy, honesty, integrity, respect and trust. It is a love that surpasses all others. It calls us to lay down our life for a friend.  To love like this is hard.

Instead we live in a world of I am right and you are wrong.  This way of living creates division, prejudice, mean-spirited attitudes, and the list goes on and on.  Basically we refuse to really listen and compromise for the common good.   God never promised it would be easy.  I just wish we would practice this kind of love instead of giving it lip service.

As a mother, I tired to teach and practice the value and importance of love  to Liam, Rory, and Keefe. As my sons move out into the world and experience the blessed variety of life that God has to offer, I hope that they will live their lives based on this love that God has ask of us.  A love that will prompt them to show compassion and merciful love to all of God's creatures , great and small.


Semper Fi!


Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Oh What a Beautiful Morning!!



It doesn't look beautiful outside but it's certainly beautiful inside my heart!   Keefe and I were able to finally have a Skype call.  We had originally planned for Sunday but something came  up on his end that interfered.  Oh well as the parents say at the Naval Academy, "Semper Gumby"!!!

This morning when I set down at my desk and begin going through my email, a Facebook chat window popped up with a message from Keefe saying he could Skype now.   Well Mom jumped on the opportunity.  

I was able to take a picture from our call.  Even with headphones, he looks well and it lifted my spirits to see his face.  Toward the end of the call the generator running the lights went out so we continued with a flashlight brought in by a Marine.   He and I joked about how the eerie lighting effect was fitting for the season.

He mentioned he got two more care packages.  One from me filled with Halloween candy and another from Ashley and Colin Murtaugh filled with cookies.  I'm not sure he shared these items as he said the candy and cookies tasted good...all of it.  Based on this report, I'd say that candy and cookies hold up well in the shipping process. :)

Well after spending time chatting and posting this blog entry, got to get to work.   Here's wishing each of you a blessed day.  I know my day will be filled with sunshine even if it is a dreary rainy day.

Semper Fi!!!

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

Flag Detail & Color Guard Duty

 The Marine's have a special site that allows family and friends to receive news and photos during the troop's deployment.   Today I read an article that reminds us that simple actions can be of great importance.  During Keefe's time at USNA, we participated in a few of these ceremonies. They are somber and respectful.  In today's crazy noisy world, you can actually hear a pin drop during the ceremony as there is complete silence when it's being performed.  The article below is about color guard duty in Afghanistan. 

Semper Fi!

 

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Marines continue time-honored tradition in Sangin

Story by Cpl. Timothy Lenzo
It is a military tradition carried out on U.S. bases throughout the world. The raising and lowering of the American flag is not just another duty for Marines, especially while deployed.

In fact, morning and evening colors is so meaningful any military members outside stop what they are doing, face the flag, snap to attention and salute. Servicemembers who are driving pull their cars over for the duration of the ceremony, until the color guard calls carry on, announcing it’s okay to continue on with their business.

“I am honored to be part of the flag detail,” said Lance Cpl. Henry Cervantes, an administrative clerk with 2nd Battalion, 7th Marine Regiment, Regimental Combat Team 6. “Not everyone gets the chance to do it. It’s a time-honored tradition, so I don’t take it lightly.”

Cervantes works with Lance Cpl. Lamarr Johnson, another administrative specialist with the battalion, and the other part of their two-man flag detail.

“Morning and evening colors is more than tradition,” said Johnson, who is from Chicago. “For me it’s about those who gave everything for their country.”

A part of Johnson’s daily responsibilities include the morning and evening color guard. Twice a day he marches out to the flagpole and calls “colors” to signify the start of the ceremony.

“I didn’t always understand the importance of the ceremony,” said Johnson. “Now that I’ve been on the flag detail and learned the proper way to fold the flag and be on time to raise and lower the flag, I take more pride in it.”

Johnson learned the commands and actions quickly once he was assigned to the detail.

“Morning and evening colors is more than tradition,” said Johnson. “For me it’s about those who gave everything for their country.”

Both of the Marines agreed the raising of the flag represents more than pieces of fabric sewn together. They said it is about their brothers in arms who lost their lives defending their country.

“Now that I’m a Marine, I have a better understanding,” said Cervantes. “I think it’s because the people who lost their lives aren’t just strangers. They are my family.”

The sense of family is why Cervantes and Johnson take their job so seriously.

The color guard will raise the American flag and the Afghan flag over the base each morning to symbolize the two nations’ partnership. These two Marines continue to add to the time-honored tradition and history of our nation’s colors.